Tuesday, June 06, 2017

Marriage reflections

June 5 was my wedding day ages ago. It's pretty scary to think that if our marriage had worked and if he were still alive, we would have celebrated our 22nd anniversary.

I don't feel that old. Then again, I did get married at such a young age.

I like where I am at these days. I am content being in a solid, loving relationship with my guy. We don't need an official piece of paper stating that fact.

In a way, I am relieved that I am not married. As of late, several friends who got married are now divorced. Perhaps it is easier to not be committed legally and to love unconditionally instead.

Then again, I don't know what the right answer is. It's best to do what is right for you.


  1. gosh i've been ding-dong-ing with this all my life. I look at the friends I know who were married and facing divorce and think "i'm glad that's not me" but then i look at the people who ARE happily married and wish that I had that. Then i look at my role in BIKSS' life and wonder what I'm doing.

    For now, i'm ok with where I am. And it sounds like you are too. *toasts to love*